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Attorneys

Mikyla Abdul-Azim

Anne W. Coventry

Blaise S. Hill

Stephanie Perry

Christina K. Scopin

Micah G. Snitzer

Adam P. Swaim

Vicki Viramontes-LaFree

Probate Paralegals

Sharon L. Coop

Marla V. Ingram

Bettina Ristau

Karen L. Williams

Family Law Paralegals

Administrative Staff

Nicole A. Ryder

Sasha J. Scott

Camilla L. Smith

We have two goals:  to represent our clients effectively at the negotiating table, and, if necessary, in court, while bringing calm, order, and sensitivity to an emotionally charged situation.  We combine zealous representation with a dignified, systematic approach.  That’s what makes us so effective.

We are well versed in the division of pensions, retirement plans, and other forms of deferred compensation, including the plans of private sector employers requiring a Qualified Domestic Relations Order (QDRO), government plans, military retirement, and the plans of international treaty organizations. We are also experienced in the valuation and division of businesses and professional services practices. We are experienced in the division of executive compensation, such as stock options, restricted stock, executive deferred compensation plans, and other forms of nonqualified retirement benefits. We are knowledgeable about the tax consequences of divorce and separation and can use our tax expertise to craft effective settlements.

We are experienced in resolving disputes about spousal and child support, including determination of income and evaluation of resources available for post-divorce family support.

We are able to draw on the expertise of our estate planning lawyers, several of whom have specialized degrees in taxation, to help our clients minimize the financial, tax, and business repercussions of separation and divorce or dissolution of a domestic partnership.  We can also assist with structuring marital settlement agreements that include post-death obligations, such as an obligation to maintain life insurance or to create a trust for a former spouse or a child.

Our services include:

  • Counseling and planning before marriage, cohabitation, separation, or divorce;
  • Preparing and reviewing premarital agreements as well as postmarital agreements, working with our estates and trusts professionals to ensure that both divorce and estate planning issues are properly addressed;
  • Preparing and reviewing domestic partnership agreements and joint real estate ownership agreements;
  • Negotiating property, custody, and support settlement agreements using collaborative law as well as traditional negotiation;
  • Resolving disputes over the validity and interpretation of premarital agreements, postmarital agreements and marital settlement agreements;
  • Resolving disputes over family businesses and professional practices;
  • Dividing retirement benefits and deferred compensation plans at divorce, including private sector, governmental, and international organization plans, for our clients and for other attorneys, including preparation of qualified domestic relations orders (QDROs);
  • Tax advice and tax planning for separated and divorced clients as well as clients who are dissolving a domestic partnership;
  • Working with parents and mental health professionals to develop workable parenting and child access plans;
  • Representing clients involved in the dissolution of registered as well as contractual domestic partnerships, custody, and support matters, and division of property;
  • Enforcing court orders and marital contracts;
  • Representing third parties subpoenaed to provide evidence in a divorce or other family law case.

Publications

Recognition

  • Super Lawyers – Divorce & Family Law (Maryland and DC, 2008-2022); Top 50 Women Attorneys (Maryland, 2015-22); Top 50 Women Attorneys (DC, 2016-17); Top 100 Lawyers (Maryland, 2016-17, 2020-22)
  • Super Lawyers – Divorce & Family Law (Maryland and DC, 2007-2024); Top 100 Attorneys in Maryland (2019-20); Top 25 Women Attorneys in Maryland (2010-12); Top 50 Women Attorneys in Maryland (2012-20); Top 50 Women Attorneys in DC (2008-12)
  • Washingtonian – Washington’s Top Divorce Lawyers (2004, 2007, 2009, 2011, 2013, 2015, 2017, 2018, 2020, 2022, 2024)
  • Washingtonian – Metro Area’s Best Divorce Lawyers (2017, 2018, 2020, 2022)
  • Best Lawyers – Family Law (Maryland, 2006-2025)
  • Best Lawyers – Family Law (Maryland, 2009-2021)
  • Best Lawyers – Family Law (Maryland, 2010-2027)
  • Best Lawyers – Collaborative Law: Family Law (Maryland, 2012-2021)
  • Best Lawyers – Family Law Mediation (Maryland, 2013-2026)
  • Best Lawyers – Family Law Mediation (Maryland, 2016-2025)
  • Best Lawyers – Lawyer of the Year in Collaborative Law: Family Law (Washington, DC, 2016, 2018, 2020)
  • Super Lawyers – Divorce & Family Law (Maryland, 2008-2019)
  • Super Lawyers – Top 50 Women Lawyers; Family Law (Maryland, 2012-2019)
  • Super Lawyers – Top 50 Women Lawyers; Family Law (Maryland, 2015-2019)
  • Super Lawyers – Divorce & Family Law (Maryland, 2018-2019)
  • Super Lawyers – Divorce & Family Law (Washington, DC, 2018)
  • Super Lawyers – Top 100 Lawyers (Maryland, 2012-2014, 2017)
  • Best Lawyers – Family Law (Maryland, 2017)
  • Bethesda Magazine – Top 25 Divorce Lawyers in the Bethesda Area (2017)
  • Super Lawyers – Top 50 Women Lawyers (Washington, DC, 2017)
  • Collaborative Dispute Resolution Professionals, Member of the Year, 2010
  • Awarded best Co-Chair of the Family Law Section of the Bar Association of Montgomery County (2008)
  • Maryland Bar Foundation (Fellow)
  • American Bar Foundation (Fellow)
  • American Academy of Matrimonial Lawyers (Fellow)

Blog Posts

December 15, 2025

How the OBBBA Might Affect Estate Planning

The President signed the One Big Beautiful Bill Act (the “OBBBA”) into law on July 4, 2025. The OBBBA extends certain tax provisions implemented by the Tax Cuts and Jobs Act of 2017 (the “TCJA”) and amends others. Various provisions of the OBBBA add certainty to existing estate planning methods and create new opportunities.

Many practitioners have spent the past few years planning with uncertainty because several provisions of the TCJA were scheduled to sunset on December 31, 2025. The OBBBA provides a greater degree of certainty, which will impact tax and estate planning. Additionally, new provisions have been introduced that may provide planning opportunities. Below are brief explanations of some of the provisions of the OBBBA that will affect how estate planners advise clients… MORE >

December 12, 2025

The NextGen Bar Exam and the Future of Trusts & Estates Practice: A Critical Juncture*

The legal profession stands at a pivotal moment as the National Conference of Bar Examiners (NCBE) prepares to roll out the NextGen Bar Exam beginning July 2026. For those engaged in trusts and estates, the ramifications of this shift extend well beyond the confines of legal education—they touch the very pipeline of practitioners and, ultimately, the public’s access to competent counsel in this vital area.

The Changing Landscape of Bar Examination

Historically, the Uniform Bar Examination (UBE) has required substantive knowledge of trusts and estates, tested primarily through the Multistate Essay Examination (MEE). This structure incentivized law students to pursue coursework in the field, ensuring a baseline of competency among new attorneys. The NextGen Bar Exam, however, will reduce both the duration of testing and… MORE >

March 26, 2025

LLCs, Partnerships, and Corporations: Update Re: Corporate Transparency Act

FILING REQUIREMENT REVISED PER INTERIM FINAL RULE

FinCEN  has issued an interim final rule clarifying its position with respect to enforcement of the CTA.  U.S. domestic reporting companies and U.S. domestic persons are not required to file, though international reporting companies are so required and new deadlines have been set for them.  The interim final rule follows U.S. Treasury’s March 2, 2025 announcement.

How did we get here?

The Corporate Transparency Act (“CTA”) took effect on January 1, 2024, requiring certain small- and medium-sized corporations, LPs, LLCs, and similar closely held entities “reporting companies” to report certain company information and beneficial ownership information reports (BOIRs) to the US Treasury Department’s Financial Crimes Enforcement Network (“FinCEN”).

On December 3, 2024, a federal district court in Texas… MORE >

January 13, 2025

Linda Ravdin Takes a Bow

Linda Ravdin has retired from the practice of law at the end of 2024 after a 50-year career. She hung out a shingle (not literally; she worked from the lawyers’ lounge at D.C. Superior Court) as soon as she passed the bar and began taking court-appointed criminal defense work. Later she switched to family law. After 22 years with Pasternak & Fidis in our Domestic and Family Law Group, countless accolades from local magazines, and a major treatise under her belt, Linda will hang up her law license but retain her honorific as the Grande Dame of Prenups. Linda was an early adopter of alternative dispute resolution in domestic cases: she encouraged clients into the collaborative process or mediation where possible, and she acted as… MORE >

January 6, 2025

Using Trusts to Negotiate Marital Agreements

Marital agreements – premarital, postmarital, and marital separation agreements – generally provide for the rights of a surviving spouse and, in many cases, for the rights of a surviving former spouse. Parties negotiating such an agreement may find it useful to incorporate provisions for a trust to hold assets for the benefit of a surviving spouse or former spouse. Parties in a blended family may want to balance the economic needs of a spouse, whether the marriage ends at death or dissolution, with the wish to pass wealth to their children. A wealthy party may want to ensure that property he/she inherited from parents or grandparents stays in his/her bloodline and may not want it to end up in the hands of a surviving spouse’s… MORE >

January 5, 2025

Maryland Trust Decanting Act: Another Way to Turn Back the Trust Hands of Time

Many states provide tools for changing an “irrevocable” trust, and with the enactment of the Maryland Trust Decanting Act, Maryland lawmakers have provided another tool to improve irrevocable trusts in Maryland, but not without limitations.

I. What does it mean to “decant”?

Just as one might filter out impurities in wine via decanting, a trustee may correct errors or omit problematic trust terms by decanting (or distributing) assets of an existing trust (the “first trust”) to one or more new trusts with different, more favorable terms (the “second trust”). Trust decanting may be expressly authorized in the trust instrument or by state statute.

After the second trust, having the preferred terms, has been established by agreement or declaration, the trustee will direct that the assets… MORE >

January 4, 2025

Election’s Impact on Estate, Gift, and GST Taxes

The federal estate/gift tax exemption amount and the generation-skipping transfer (GST) tax exemption amount are both $13.61 million for 2024 (a $5 million base exemption, doubled in 2017 to $10 million and indexed for inflation). Under current law, this figure will become $13,990,000 on January 1, 2025, but it is scheduled to drop significantly on January 1, 2026, when the 2017 law that doubled the base exemption sunsets.

Now, however, we know the election results, and they portend a shift of power in both houses of Congress and the White House. Gridlock in Congress would have meant that the sunset would happen by default, but now extension of the higher exemption levels beyond the January 1, 2026 sunset date appears more likely. This may alleviate… MORE >

December 13, 2024

P&F’s Newest Partner Micah Snitzer

Micah Snitzer became a partner in the firm’s Estate Planning and Administration Group in early 2024, having joined the firm as an associate in 2014. He handles a wide range of estate planning matters, working with individuals and families to prepare wills, trusts, healthcare directives, and powers of attorney. He particularly likes the advisory role, working closely with clients to understand and achieve their estate planning objectives.

Micah grew up in a suburb of Minneapolis and earned his undergraduate degree from Colorado College, where he enjoyed the nurturing academic environment during the week and snowboarding on the weekends. He returned to Minneapolis to work as a legal assistant following graduation to gain insight into the legal profession, discovering that he truly enjoyed the work. Micah… MORE >

December 4, 2024

Congratulations to our Top Lawyers!

Congratulations to Anne Coventry, Stephanie Perry, and Linda Ravdin for making Washingtonian Magazine list of 2024’s Top Lawyers!

November 21, 2023

What Your Future Probate Paralegal Would Like You to Know

BY BETTINA RISTAU, PROBATE PARALEGAL

When someone dies, getting down to the business of administering the estate (or trust) can seem like a herculean task, especially while grieving. Below are observations made by the probate paralegal team here at Pasternak & Fidis in response to common client assumptions that we share in hopes of easing that burden for your loved ones when the time comes.

My estate documents are signed – I am all set!

Estate planning does not end when the will and trust instrument have been signed. Your estate planning attorney has created a customized plan for you and your family after considering your family structure, assets, values, and tax planning objectives. Your estate plan is, in effect, a roadmap to ensure that… MORE >